+ If you want to add me just because of my graphics, please head over to my graphics community, lilacwine7.
+ You are more than welcome to disagree with me, but please don't do it in a childish manner. Debating is good, but bashing is totally uncool.
+ Of course, once you friend me, I will also assume that I am welcome to disagree with something you say. Freedom of speech goes both ways.
+ I would really appreciate it if you explain why you want to friend me. Otherwise, I won't add you back because I'd assume you just friended me for no good reason.
+ I do believe in the idea of cutting friends, but I don't do that just for the hell of it. I do have reasons. Don't take it personally. If you want to know why I defriended you, ask politely, which you may do either via LJ comments, email, or IM. It's up to you. There's a big chance it's not even anything personal - something to do with us being in very different places or me not being able to relate with you anymore. For me, cutting friends =/= ZOMG I HATE YOU!